Monday, December 9, 2013

LOTS to catch up on!

The other day I was thinking about how I hadn't blogged for a while.  I just discovered that "a while" was since September 15th!  In all my years blogging, this is definitely the longest I've gone without doing a post.  Not bad - just interesting...

In an effort to summarize the last three months, here are a few happenings and life lessons:

My (Summer) Health Challenge proved to be a big success!  Not only did I lose at least two inches everywhere along with 7 pounds, I learned what it felt like to truly be in an exercise routine and crave workouts every day.  My mantra was to make exercise a priority every day - whether it was a short walk around the neighborhood or tough workout at the gym.  During the month of August (and most of September) I worked out daily.  Let me tell you, it felt so healthy!  I was so proud of myself for really honoring my commitment to my health, which even included daily runs and gym workouts when I was on vacation.  For me, regular workouts are not about the # on the scale - they are about how I FEEL when I'm taking care of myself.  I love the ripple effect of the "inward healthy feel" that regular fitness provides. 

I ended up giving up alcohol for 21 days straight, which was a definite challenge for me.  It proved to be truly difficult on only 3 particular days.  I ended up losing 7 lbs during those 21 days alone, which was eye opening (and a bit comical and embarrassing at the same time).  More importantly, it reaffirmed my belief in the following: portion control is everything.  Getting rid of something entirely is not always necessary, but when you consume something enough so that it no longer is a treat and you feel unhealthy, it's not the best choice.  I am glad that I challenged myself to take break from booze, but I also know that I love my wine and beer, and there's nothing wrong with a glass a day :).

I read a few books, including The Shack.  I bought this book years ago and for some reason never read it.  I particularly loved the book because it was so affirming for me in regard to my faith and what I believe it's all about - for me.  It brought me peace.  I am thankful for this.

I've still been Facebook free since May!  It has gone well.  Per usual, the things I've missed have been seeing photos of friends and family who are out of town, and being invited to fun events in Seattle.  I took the liberty of activating (and later deactivating) my profile on Saturday for a few hours to do a "friend cleanse."  I decided to do a big sweep of my Facebook friends to identify people I still haven't been in touch with, who are no longer an active part of my life.  I was able to go from 1105 to around 750 friends (for me this is sadly an accomplishment).  I am considering re-joining Facebook over the holidays but still feel somewhat hesitant and unclear about what I ultimately want.  Perhaps I'll do a one month stint and report back here...

In November, I took a trip to Washington, D.C. for work and to visit family and friends who live there.  It was a great time seeing my cousins (Laura and Amy) and close friends (Seth and Anna).  They are a blessing in my life.  Every time I get on an airplane, I love the feeling of getting away from home.  It forces me to stop, pause, and just be present - to take time for myself to reflect on my life and (physically) remove myself from the chaos of life at home.  Frankly, I love living out of a nice hotel room for a few days.  I cherish these moments.  I hope I can afford to get away more often in 2014!

Last week my close friend Marianne gave birth to her first child - a beautiful baby girl, Brenna.  It was truly an incredible feeling visiting Marianne later that day at the hospital and meeting Brenna.  I got to hold her for an hour, and did a good job keeping it together!  It made me realize how fast time flies, and how beautiful life is.  It's an amazing thing to be part of that journey with a close friend.  I can't wait for more Auntie Margie moments down the road.

In October, my good friend Maria got married to her now husband, Jared.  I was truly honored to be one of only three bridesmaids that day.  The wedding was really special.  Everything about the wedding reflected Maria and Jared's values, and one of the best moments of the night (besides the obvious "I do's") was when Maria got to dance with her Grandpa in front of her loved ones.  Maria and I have been through a few journeys together in the realm of love, and it was very rewarding to see everything come to fruition in such a beautiful way.

My dog is awesome.  She is kind, loving, and a total trooper.  Through thick and thin, she is there for me.  There are many moments where I look at her and say: "I have no idea how I would have gotten through today without you!"  Thank you, Lucy.  You are the best.


  1. Hi, I would like to express to you my congrats about your facebook detox. Before going on I would like to appologize for my bad english. When I decided to quit facebook I googled "bye facebook" to get a picture for my blog and I discovered your wonderful blog. I don't get every thing because I don't read english very well but I love it. I used to live in Montréal and when I left Canada to go back to france I needed to quit facebook. I felt so wonderfully well. Autonome in my thoughts, active, I really liked the way I lived without FB. But, 6 months later when I return to Montréal I needed to see my old friends, and events, I had to work on my "job's plugg". So I reactivated Facebook. Same pattern that before. Posting during hours, reading bullshit that I don't care, being active in insignifiants proceedings but above all, always that little voice in my inner whispering to me "go see on facebook what happends". Want to know what happens ? Brenda's cat did pooh on the sofa. Tiffany's brother doesn't want to invite her to his party and Martin's son belched for the first time. It's sort of melting-pot of little daily frustrations. The worst of it, we like it. We like read this little piece of c**p. I am really exhausted about facebook. I used to answers and comment a lot and give my point of view, it always come back in my head like a boomerang. My account is suspended. I want to spend time in healthier way. So don't let you appealing by the essential side of facebook because it's not. I hope so.

  2. Hi you ! I began my own blog and explain how and why I delete facebook (as I explain up side) you can follow me on and I know it is in french but there is a translator on the right of the page.